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    Posted by Gemini25
    Posted by jeane
    Posted by Gemini25
    Posted by jeane
    Posted by Gemini25
    Posted by jeane
    is what normal for libras?

    to say they miss people when they haven't even met yet? yes, i can imagine it.

    to say they miss people when they haven't met and actually mean it? he probably meant it in the moment. it most likely sounded like a good thing to say at the time.

    does this guy actually miss you? he probably misses his fantasy of the person he imagines you to be.

    the words have little to do with you but more about his meaningless conversation. don't put any stock in it. it's just chat.


    Here's the thing this is the 3rd time he said I miss you during one of our chats. Then he added he wants to see me in real life so bad. He lives out of state so it's not like we can plan a date. We have talked by Skype before so it's not like we haven't seen each other but yes I know it's not the same as meeting in person. I really do like him but again I am being guarded.


    he could say it a hundred times, it doesn't give it any more weight.

    he says it because there is the comfort of distance.

    unless there are actual plans for him to come to you, stay guarded and give it no merit.

    they are nice words. nice to say and nice to hear but ultimately meaningless unless he is standing in front of you.


    Ok but why keep saying it when I'm in contact with him on the daily? Is he testing me if I will say it back? To me miss you or missing you is a strong word and I dont just say it to anyone. I know Men think differently but I dont get why say it. Also he tells me thinking of you sometimes as well.


    because he probably thinks it sounds romantic and he is likely to be caught up in his own imagination. it's still nonsense. he probably believes it but he doesn't really mean it.

    to him it's not a strong word and he probably does say it to practically anyone - well anyone he hasn't grown bored with yet. it's not to say he is an utter bastard. he's just full of shit. most of us are.


    Wait you're a Libra? Libras are full of shit? Maybe in naive but I do still believe in real romance and a connection. Of course I am cautious. He tells me he is planning to come and visit me but he is not giving me an update if he is still coming at the end of this month. I dont want to ask him because I dont want to come off as being pushy . Honestly at this point if he comes cool if he doesnt than it is disappointing since we have build an emotional connection talking everyday now for a month and a half . I like to believe if he isnt serious why talk to me but again who the hell knows.
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    i don't think it's wrong to believe in romance and connection. it's a wonderful thing. i'm not cynical enough to say it doesn't exist.

    but i will say, i will never believe the flowery words that come out of a libras mouth unless accompanied by action.

    fine, if he is planning to come. great. believe it when he knocks on your door. until then it is just words.

    he is probably talking to you because you sound like a great person. you most likely share a lot of interests and you make his day more interesting. that's perfect for a penpal. it doesn't make a potential romantic relationship until you can see the whites of his eyes.

    for yourself, enjoy it! enjoy his company, the laughs but don't pin your hopes on him until he proves to you that he is worthy of it.