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    Joined dxpnet on April 18, 2017.
    Posted by Phantom_Dangus
    Posted by piscesman707
    We are together because we both loved going on adventures around town. It has only been in the last 6-12 months when she has allowed other people to criticize me and the relationship and then started to become more and critical herself. I feel like she should not be allowing her parents to dictate how her relationship should be. Whenever they have been less than supportive, I have been there.

    I feel like she puts a greater priority on other people's approval and what they would think and telling me how I should budget my funds than she should be doing, especially when she has finally graduated and isn't even earning enough money to buy enough groceries. Her parents need to be renovating their home and instead it seems like they are focused on road trips and other pass-times.

    She has never lived on her own or been independent enough from either her parents or the church. She has almost 0 savings left to move or attend school or live away from her parents. She hasn't had many friends since she graduated from high school and I guess is keen on keeping casual acquaintances around when she should be listening to someone she has been through a lot with instead (me). I have tried to discuss things with her in a mature manner but today she was avoiding speaking to me at church so I just left and got a ride home with an elderly lady.


    Are the two of you the same age? I hear some control issues in that, as in, you see her making mistakes and want to direct her in an attempt to help, but she sees it as interference and rebels.
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    Not really from my end at all. She is very controlling in many areas, such as making a schedule for what /we/ are doing for a few days, asking whether I could wear something else at times, telling me I should not see my friends on the weekends, what movies we should be watching, what photos I took she approves/disapproves of, etc. She would refuse to do anything and become ugly and uncompromising after the first 6-12 months and it was a real shock for me. Instead of the appreciative, pleasant Taurus I thought she was, she turned into a real monster for no reason at all. Her parents said she would be mean for no reason but "she doesn't mean it". What?!

    I know I am dating a Taurus but from what I read, they start to act more like Virgo's when they are seriously considering a mate for the long-term/marriage. I found once she started to be highly critical instead of the sweet, pleasant and cuddle-loving Taurus she used to be, life has gotten much harder for us both because it leads to fighting rather than affection. I had never dated a Taurus before and was very shocked at how insecure they seem to be after having Taurus guy-and-girl-friends who seemed so laid-back and pleasant.