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    INTJ. Virgo 8H Taurus 11H Cancer 8H Aries Merc
    32 years old female
    Joined dxpnet on August 19, 2014.
    Posted by ariesbee
    Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
    Not good at all. I have a lot of anger towards her. They say cancer moons are supposed to have some of the best relationships with their mothers, but my moon is heavily afflicted. My moon squares my sun, conjuncts my mars, Chiron, and conjuncts my south node at 0 degrees. It’s also in the 11th house, so I see my friends more as family than my actual family.

    My mom was going thru a lot of shit when I was growing up. My dad used to beat her, and she was extremely depressed because of it. So she didn’t really take care of us because of it. She was there and put a roof over our heads but that was it. She was never there for us emotionally, and the only emotion she showed was anger. So because of that I became an extremely hot headed, angry person who is uncomfortable with any type of affection. My brothers are the same way. She also would leave us home alone while she stayed at her bf’s every night after my dad left. So I was left to take care of 2 children everyday while I was in high school. She proceeded to marry him even though we told her we hated him. She chose him over us. I understand why she acted the way she did, but at the same time I don’t. I feel as a parent you should never ice out your kids no matter wtf you’re going thru. The worst part is she’s in complete denial over everything she did and how she made us feel. She felt like she did no wrong just because she paid for everything. She feels like she was the best mom ever lol.


    I relate to this so much. My mother was a very angry person who couldn’t handle stress well. I learned that from her. It’s hard to change even though I’m aware of it.

    She also felt like just because she provided for us financially, that was enough. But emotionally, she was not there. And when I brought it up to her, she made the excuse that she was stressed out. She blamed my father. I told her that’s no reason to take it out on your kids. She doesn’t think she’s a bad mother.

    Are you still in contact with your mother?
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    Oh man that totally sounds like my mom. It pisses me off that she doesn’t see her fault. Even the day my little bro had a mental breakdown and straight up said, “oh now you wanna act like you give a fuck about me?! You were never there for us!” She was still in denial. He’s schizophrenic and I feel like a lot of the trauma we had to deal with played a huge part in his mental health. See at least you talk to her about it, I keep it bottled up. I don’t talk about it, and I can’t express deep emotional pain to her. I can’t be vulnerable with my own mother. Smh.

    Yeah, unfortunately I still live at home with her. I really live here because I’m worried about my brothers, especially after we found out one of my brothers is schizo. I just avoid her at all costs. I stay in my room all day, or go out, and don’t really talk to her. Anytime we talk I just respond angrily. I can’t hold a normal convo with her without her mad or annoyed, so I just avoid it.

    Omg I just realized your mom is a Gemini sun. Lol. My mom is a Gemini moon. I wonder if it’s that Gemini energy. Not to generalize, but majority of the parents I know with strong Gemini energy in their charts are a bit shitty lol. That’s just in my experience. My dads a Gemini sun. My ex friend who abandoned her son is a Gemini sun.