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    Posted by PiscesGal76
    I'm wondering if there is such a thing where men are waiting on the woman to start talking again so the men know its ok and feel like the woman is no longer upset/disappointed/frustrated/whatever with them.

    A friend uttered to me that it seems like the Bull that I'm in a situationship with, waits for me to start talking again after I called him out on things or when I tell him like it is cause thats how I trained him during the months that we've been talking. Last weekend he overloaded me with his feelings in the middle of the night after he had a few drinks (not drunk), day after he talked fine too and the sunday after I expressed how it confuses me even more and that I would appreciate it if he'd tell me what it is that he wants. He read it and gone quiet. A week later, last Saturday, I asked him how he was doing and he replied instantly and cheerfully, as tho he was waiting on me. This makes me think that my friend might be right. As this happened twice before, where I called him out/told him like it is on his behaviour, he gone quiet for a few days and as soon as I texted him, he would be all cheery n excited. When I call him out on things, I do it in a nice and gentle matter. I dont acuse him but I'd express how it confuses me or if it hurts me. And that I would love some clarity ect especially now after declared feelings from his side.

    His placements Taurus sun and mercury, cancer moon, venus and mars, capricorn jupiter, saturn gemini and uranus libra.

    And yes, I am going on with own life, meeting others ect. I realise I screwed up by moving too fast.....


    I don’t know if it applies in your situation. But my husband goes silent and distant and said that’s his way of reviewing and reflecting on what was said and whether he needs to work on fixing himself.