Posted by Phantom_Dangus Posted by SassyKiwi Posted by Phantom_Dangus Posted by SassyKiwi Posted by Sailor_Mars Posted by SassyKiwi Posted by Sailor_Mars Posted by SassyKiwi
Why you falling weak for a guy's words, his actions will tell you everything
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"He also told me that I am a premium in every way ( mind, body, soul ) comparing to her...The rave was in another country so they are traveling together after five month..." Him glowing you up and shit with measly words should not matter, he's with another chick period
my best friend ( our mutual friend ) who saw him told this.
So? It doesn't change the fact that he still chose her and therefore is with her while you wallow and waste your precious time. You're nearing 30. Options of guys don't get any better with age. Worry about that reality than a stupid ex
This should definitely make her feel better. 😟
You go on and post superficial stuff like songs to help her continue to cope instead of live. I'll do what was done to help me move on which was opening up my own eyes to my own delusions. I can't do that fake shit and say a virtual hug will temporarily make it better. This person genuinely needs help and she's not getting it
Are you really gonna pretend that was tough love and not just you barely reading the post and overreacting?
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Did you read her follow up posts? At least she acknowledged she's not proud of loving her ex. There might be some hope but it doesn't help when other 30+ year olds try to superficially continue to help her just cope instead of dishing to her the reality. She's not a wee little teenager. She's almost 30 if not already