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  • Posted by ElvisStalinWoods
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by ElvisStalinWoods
    Posted by stillstillwater
    I've been in about 3 (possibly more) Pluto/Venus (Pluto person) and Pluto/Mars (Mars person) synastries.

    In the synastry are you the Pluto person?

    Being the Pluto person is the hardest because you do become obsessed ...for no damn reason which can drive you crazy alone. But on top of that you want so much so fast that the other person cannot accommodate which leads to feeling rejected. But you won't be able to stop. So it will be a crazy cycle of "rejuvenation" and "rejection like this:

    1) You're obsessed
    2) Somehow this obsession is communicated to the other person
    3) Other person does not reciprocate same intensity (Venus/Mars person is more afraid to express themselves and their courage/love really intensifies over time)
    4) Feeling rejected and deciding to walk away
    5) But you can't so you convince yourself that things will be different or may be you can do it a different way. It will reveal aspects about yourself that you think working on will somehow attract this person.
    6) Rejuvenation and reconciliation

    Pluto is very deceptive in this scenario meaning you will feel obsessed and in-love and you may think you have the greatest love story of all time... but when you sit with it and dissect it you realize there is actually nothing concrete/substantial there.

    So there would need to be other aspects to ground this synastry because it can give you those feelings of things being fated or very intense for no reason.

    Final advice be careful of coming on too strong.

    Other than that it is transformative and heartbreaking but full of ecstasy too.


    In most cases, with Pluto square Venus in my natal, I'm the Venus and the woman is Pluto.

    I've been Pluto in a couple cases, but have never felt obsessed to that degree.

    In the case I'm looking at lately, she's got her Pluto aspecting my Venus and Mars. She has literally said "I don't want to be obsessed with you" when we discussed the situation lately. She blames herself for having lured me in (though I don't feel that she lured me at all), claiming she just wanted me to like her. We had a heavy week that started off with hours talking to each other in a car. It sort of fits the bill, but I fear I'm more likely to become the one obsessed or out of rational thinking by the end of it.


    Yeah makes sense...depends on your own chart and other synastry aspects.

    How was it for you as Venus?

    Why does she consider it "luring"?


    Being Venus in the Pluto Sq. Venus, it always feels like I'm more objectified than appreciated. I usually come across women that are happy to be intimate and fuck my brains out, but once I express any degree of interest beyond just sexual interest, they run. Communication dies and then they later come back when I'm over it. Or a lot of women who will come onto me very heavily, but completely retreat when I reciprocate and then leave me overthinking things.

    She thinks she bent conversations in a direction that would get me interested in her. She basically stalked me online, though she barely found a thing. She also thinks she used "the law of attraction" and drew me in with the desires for me that she put out into the universe 👀. I tried to fit that wavelength with her, for the sake of conversation, and explained to her that those methods can't just overhaul another person's free will.
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    Oh that' sounds frustrating as hell. I've never had the square, just trine and sextile.

    I have to admit that i have that messed up situation (Pluto Trine Venus) which is difficult to navigate to begin with but the person and context is fucked up too...so that adds to it. I can see the overthinking part 100% .

    Whoa, she's really out there huh... I mean law of attraction is great and all... but doesn't mean you're forcing someone to be with you. Well she's really open with you.... that's a good thing.