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    Posted by hippiecrite
    Posted by Capricorn91
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    Posted by Capricorn91
    Strange i see this post when i have been thinking about a friend for the past few days. She has been missing since last year lol when she got married and i got angry with her and before that also we weren't talking much before that but a few chats here and there but idk why suddenly i have been thinking of her alot lately like there is an urge to reconnect again like old times but i know it won't happen.

    As for what friendship means to me is when we can be happy for the other person when good things happen to them and also when you need them they will be there, and sometimes even a checking up on someone is enough even when you can't be fully involved.


    Were you guys strictly platonic or were there romantic feelings from one or both sides?


    One side, mine and prob hence the anger.


    Yeah... I figured. It makes total sense that she would distance herself, out of respect for her husband. What I don’t get is, if she knew how you felt and knew she didn’t reciprocate, why did she maintain your friendship to begin with? I mean, do you feel you were strung along or did she make it known she only cared for you as a friend?
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    Yes, we had a discussion about this where i told her i had feelings for her and she said she didn't but i she said i am her best friend. And we were fine with it. This was a long time back. Then she left for her higher studies and contact became less and less and then almost stopped. We reconnected in brief and she was very happy to see me again, but since we were in different cities and due to work pressure it wasn't like before. Still i tried to keep things alive but prob she was already involved with someone and couldn't give the same like before and then one day a mutual friend told me she is getting married and i felt angry as it should have come from her and why didn't she tell me about this when i had asked her about it many times before. And now idk why all of a sudden i am thinking of her so much when i know nothing is gonna happen.