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    Posted by PoloChat
    Posted by jeane
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    Posted by pinkbird03
    Start sharing ur personal interests and ask him those kind of questions


    How do i start just like that. I mean hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed. So what do you like doing. Ughhhh how do i start🙈


    I think take the pressure off yourself. It's just a conversation to get to know him better. It's all about being genuinely curious.

    Taking your example

    hey how was ur weekend? Good just chilled and netflixed.
    Oh yeah? Anything you would recommend? Favourite movie as a kid? Did you see it in the cinema? (Share a cinema memory of yours.) Were you a popcorn or an ice cream kid? What about your brothers and sisters? Did you fight as kids? How do you get on now?

    Really its endless. Just get out of your brain and freaking out about how much you like him and be genuinely curious to learn more about him as a person and a potential friend.


    Uhhh i like it!!! Really i have to stop thinking that i like him, and just focus on getting to know him!


    Exactly. You've made friends before. You've had conversations before. This is exactly the same. You've got this.

    If all goes well you'll find that he is even better than you imagined.


    Also i want to add a question here, since i like your advice!
    So i was the one who intiated contact with him and texted him first. But he left the conversation mid way and didn't reply me back.
    It was after 2 months that he started chatting again and since then we are chatting daily.
    Do you think it will be cool if i ask what the reason was or something along the line or should i ignore the topic?
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    Personally it wouldn't be my focus at this point. I would be trying to build friendship capital at the moment.

    If you are still curious and you're at a stage where you are comfortable with each other further down the line then ask.