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    Joined dxpnet on September 17, 2014.
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    i get that you are conscious of the kids and the shit the mother can pull but really, you have to put them first. stop the sexual pda in front of them.

    kids don't want to see that. put your fanny away and consider these kids who don't have a choice in the matter.

    and have him have an age appropriate conversation with them. to not do so will only confuse them and enough upheaval has already happened in their life. be considerate of them. it's not their job to make you feel better and confident about your situation.


    Fanny ? No where did I say we were vulgar in front of them. He literally laid on me and gave me a hug. That's it. He never kisses me in front of them. Bc of that. He'll hold my hand , hug me , play with me and put his arm around me. I'll scratch his back , rub his head , it's always G rated.


    laying on you is not appropriate. that the kid had to tell you to knock it off is shameful. why should a child have to inform you of your own moral compass?


    So if we got married then what are we supposed to do ? If we have children of our own what are we supposed to do ? Only display PDA in front of our child we have together ? I'm just trying to understand ....


    sorry, i thought we were talking about someone else's children, not your own.

    are you married?
    are these children old enough to know and understand that you are having sex?
    do you need him to throw his leg over you in front of them? what's next? dry humping?
    is it that important for you that you get a momentary thrill that you feel it's ok to make their feelings secondary?

    save that shit for the bedroom. if you are looking to be a parent some day, now is the time to learn to put the kids first.


    I'm probably refrain from putting anything else up on here. Bc it seems like everyone thinks that he doesn't put his kids first. HE DOES. He's the best father I have seen , I wish my father was like he is. I would be proud to have a child with him seeing how he is with his children. He does everything you could imagine for them. We save everything that they need not to see for the bedroom. They only see us goofing around if anything. I'm surprised if he even hugs me at all bc of them being around. So miss you don't know shit about what's going on over here so you can chill tf out on that.


    you can backtrack and minimise all you like. you're just annoyed that so many of us called you out on your shit. if a 7 year old child says ew, then they know it is not innocent.

    don't ask for advice or opinions if you're unwilling to hear it.

    i'm not talking about him putting the kids first, i'm talking about YOU putting them first. somehow this seems like a foreign concept to you.


    I'm actually not. None of you know me or my situation first hand so you all are just going solely off what you read not considering there's so much deeper than that. I don't know any of you and don't owe any of you that explanation. I just wanted to know if I should talk to him about who they view me as. And all of y'all wanna be internet gangsters wanna be coming at me. I don't owe you shit tbh. I don't want your advice if you're going to come at me the way you are. I could see if I came at y'all sideways but I did not. Therefore I couldn't give af about any of these if your thoughts that want to come at me negatively.


    spectacular attitude. i can see why you are the cousin now.


    There's always a troll , I see you chose to be it. You provoke me then say that ? Classy.


    call me a troll but you are still missing the point. stupid is as stupid does.


    I'm not missing anything , you don't know what's going on over here so you my dear are the stupid one with your statements on things you don't even know or are you trying to understand. So for you to come on my sht and try to call me stupid ? When you don't know all of what it is with the situation I'm in , you're the dumb as $


    i'll go back to it. i'm not the one being called cousin after 2 years.
    based on your behaviour in this thread, i'll stand my use of the word stupid.
    jesus, based on your need to use condescending language alone (eg "dear" "miss"), i'll stand by my use of the word stupid.


    Ok , are you done ?


    it makes no difference to me.


    Great. Have a nice night


    cheers cuz


    Cheers to you too bitter b|tch


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    the only come back available when you have still missed the point.


    There's no point to miss bc everything you're saying is irrelevant. You don't get it , you're not reading what any of what I said correctly. I never said that I was being inappropriate in front of the kids. If you read my comments to the others you'd probably get a little bit of a better understanding. But bc you're a bully I don't expect it. You're bored ASF on a Saturday night with nothing better to do but be online and come on ppls topics really seeking advice but in turn you troll. Seek help. Not even a therapist giving their advice would be as ignorant and shallow as you.


    “ I never said that I was being inappropriate in front of the kids. ”

    We all get that. The part that you don’t understand is that even though you may think you weren’t being inappropriate in front of his kids, one of the kids felt you were being inappropriate. Some of the readers here think that as well.

    The fact that you are standing by what you believe instead of acknowledging and addressing what the kids believe, means you are being selfish and only thinking of your beliefs instead of the kids, thus creating poor boundaries and not taking inconsideration of his children’s feelings.

    No matter what you believe you should be sensitive to children’s beliefs and feelings. Their father should have an appropriate conversation with them, to help them understand the situation.

    At least that’s how it appears and what I’ve read in this thread.

    Not having all the facts myself and not being in your shoes the whole thing seems really inappropriate and kind of nauseating. I believe children should not be introduced to significant others until they’re older and it seems that the relationship is going to be long term.

    When a single parent introduces another parental figure and the relationship doesn’t last, it’s another loss for the child, which in psychology, it’s an equivalent to grief of having a parent being dead, gone forever.

    Take care. Hope everything works out for you.
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    on top of that it's everyone else's responsibility to accommodate her or is somehow to blame. she remains almost a bystander in all of this.

    the ex is a hot mess.
    the bf needs to man up
    the kids should just deal with her needs ("just bc of the children")

    there is no sense that along with everyone else she needs to be a positive influence here too. the kids however, have no responsibility in this. their only job is to be children.

    i'm so glad you understood what i was saying. thank you.