It was my guys weekend with his kid and we were to meet up after he dropped him off. He is always vague with details such as a specific time, but when it comes to his kid, I never question him
The husband of a friend was at a Super Bowl party I was at and had been drinking a lot, she wasn't there. He lives by my guy, so I said I would drop him off on my way, because you don't let people drive drunk, right?
I texted my Taurus to let him know that I was dropping this guy off and HE FLIPPED like I was doing something wrong. Like I was picking some random guy up from a bar. Told me he'd be "asleep" but this guy "needs me" & to get him "home safe". I figured he was kidding and said I was coming over anyway & then he said he was going out & wouldn't be home, this was within minutes of me texting. I said ok, I'll wait for you, thinking he'd just cool off & he said I was being "crazy" & a "stalker" for saying I was going to wait for him. I'm like "stalker", just a few seconds ago we had plans and I was invited and now I'm a crazy stalker, like WTF? That really hurt.
I pleaded with him to be reasonable about the situation and he was just not having it. Now, I feel like he's punishing me. I was trying to keep a drunk driver off the road. It would not have impacted our plans at all.
I've apologized profusely even though I don't feel like I did anything wrong and he's still giving me the silent treatment.
I really care about this guy, but this kind of behavior is questionable. Was I wrong? Is this some jealousy on his part? Is this typical Taurus behavior??
Before I contact him again, I would love to get some feedback from you guys. Should I let him cool off or tell him to f*** off? Thoughts?