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    Sun Lib12- Moon Gem 8- Merc Lib12-Venus/Mars Virgo11- Asc Lib-Pluto Scorp1st.
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    Joined dxpnet on July 18, 2012.
    Well after everyone’s advice, I ended our conversation with the following to him; I’ll respect his stance and I do feel badly how things turned out. Again thank you all so much. I’m actually a pretty private person in my “real” life, not one to burden friends with my personal life. So, coming here to talk has always been helpful.

    “Sometimes it’s hard to see outside your own perspective. We each measure things based on experiences, no matter how “woke” we aim to be. No matter how “in the moment” we are. It’s how are minds are setup to operate.

    I’m sure in many ways I have discouraged you in the context of “relationships”. But, it was previously based on a comparison of my life experience. Not yours.
    In your mind you may not understand why I feel certain ways about communication or “merging”.

    You may even feel that you’ve given more to this, because you’ve made massive changes to how your life fundamentally operates. It can make you feel undervalued, that your efforts were not appreciated.

    You allowing me into your world was huge. Huge.

    But when we view things from the scope of our own worlds, we miss things. What might be huge for you, seems like an ordinary thing to me, or vice versa.

    I just want to say, thank you. I know it was hard. Sometimes discouraging, and very confusing for you. It is not a comfortable thing, and you did it for me. You opened up, to only be told it wasn’t enough. But maybe I missed how far you actually had to walk to get to where you were. Maybe it was a further walk than I knew. Maybe you walked further than I did. Maybe we left from a totally different starting point.

    Had I grasped the significance earlier on, I think it would have helped prevent damage that was ultimately done. Merely from a lack of understanding of our different worlds.

    I just thought I needed to say that. I’m sorry for my part.”