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    At any point consent is taken away it can be rape because sex is not a contract where once you sign up that's it.


    if you are not putting yourself into situations which can be considered as a consensual sex (getting naked or offering "room service") is consensual in my book

    I really want to make sure everyone understands what rape is. If you offer yourself, its not rape, even if you not feel good afterwards and feel rejected. Because you are not total stupid and dumb to get into this situation, right? or are you? and you teach your girls and boys this same stupidity? That you get naked and during the intercourse you say no, and then accuse the other party of rape? (if they dont "love you anymore")

    If you just go home from work and get attacked, thats rape. Unexpected. Horrible.

    Lots of women and girls are shamed into the accusations
    our girls are really not that imbecile, why force them to act like ones? Rape is rape, sexual liberation is sexual liberation

    dont accuse others for YOUR actions.

    (ps. not you, but generally)


    You are the one who does not understand what rape is.


    "You are the one who does not understand what rape is"

    I am not the one parroting the useless "if you say no, its no" mantra. Reality proved this wrong. What is the goal, to protect our girls or to let them know AFTERWARDS, that it was "rape"? Then it happens because the girl empowered by this bs is getting naked in a party, feeded by no is no AT ANY TIME. Is this really the way how to protect our girls?


    Times are changing. Can't stop progress toward more democratic freedoms for people once they get a taste of it. And that means women should be able to be where they want to be without getting raped.


    "Times are changing. Can't stop progress toward more democratic freedoms for people once they get a taste of it. And that means women should be able to be where they want to be without getting raped."

    Absolutely.
    But not naked, imho


    So, what if a woman is having sex in her own bed naked with her own husband, and she wants to stop for some reason? (Any reason would do, but let me tell you the ones that have happened to me... it started to hurt or I had to pee.) If her husband refuses to stop, did he just rape his wife? According to US law, and every other law I know, he sure as hell did.

    Edit: Just to be clear. I've never been raped, and my husband has never raped me or anyone. I feel I need to say that since people misread all the time.
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    very hard to say... if you felt uncomfortable, its maybe the marital status or he was insensitive. I am sorry you felt this way.
    Edit: You can see from this thread that I am not a quitter, if you feel somehow, let it out. I am not going to say rape, if marital problems are there. I am sure you love your husband and he loves you. Sometimes its just not the right time, as in long-term relationships is often. Not rape.