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  • Posted by frozenintime
    How long does it take you in a relationship to know if you want it long term?
    Or how long in do you feel like you fall in love?

    I’m in a relationship for 3 months. We are like best friends, have no fights or issues. But I feel like the “spark” isn’t there like something is missing? But there’s nothing wrong and he treats me good. I feel guilty for feeling this and trying to give it a fair amount of time.

    I care about him and I obviously enjoy his company but... just something isn’t there.

    I deeply crave passion in relationships...


    If there was never a spark.. then you should leave as soon as viable. Trust me, as I’ve divorced from a man who was good enough but no spark. Things become unbearable after a few years. Depends on who a person is of course, but if you’re already saying this you’re more like me.

    There is only one life. If you have issues about having kids/running out of time, then consider your options. But if you’re younger or aren’t concerned about family scheduling, you should leave him. You aren’t doing him any favors either by keeping him from finding his soulmate.

    The thing is, imagine the man you want, the one your soul is connected to. If you can imagine him, then he’s out there for you. Find him.