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    My pronouns are Pay/Me
    Joined dxpnet on October 21, 2015.
    Posted by Sweetbug33
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    First you need to really sort out if they are emotionally stunted or if they just communicate their emotions in a different way then you. If your both speaking different languages you can't understand each other.


    I think he’s stunted
    He avoids when I try to communicate by ignoring if he can or just lashing out or just putting the blame on me and plays the victim
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    Without knowing specifics here... have you tried switching up your approach? Maybe he feels attacked and goes on the defensive...
    What about each of you writing down 2 things you love/appreciate about each other and 1 thing you want them to work on in the relationship.
    When talking about the bad it goes down easier if you sandwich it in between some good.