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  • Posted by 7thHouse
    Posted by bad_at_usernames
    Posted by 7thHouse
    Posted by bad_at_usernames
    Posted by 7thHouse
    Posted by bad_at_usernames
    Posted by 7thHouse
    Posted by bad_at_usernames
    Posted by 7thHouse
    Posted by bad_at_usernames
    Nov 22 sagittarius girl who stood with me through everything for 12 yrs since we were kids gave up on our friendship unexpectedly. The fights we were having towards the end of it all definitely were not resolvable because neither one of us wanted to accept our fault. She wanted me to make a choice between my boyfriend and her, I told her I wanted both and that she doesn't have a right to ask me to chose. She took it for me choosing my boyfriend even when I clearly said I want both. We didn't speak for 1.5 months after that after which I called her up. Started talking again but she'd just changed. She just wasn't the same person anymore. Had a fight on idr what again and then never spoke to each other ever again.
    I really started noticing a change in her behavior after she got into a relationship with her first boyfriend ever who BTW asked her to not care about me that much.
    This was all two years ago around this time in 2018. I still dream about more frequently than I'd like to and really a lot lately and in those dreams we're always best friends living life like we used to with each other, as if nothing ever happened. I don't even think about her when I'm awake ofcourse except when I've just had a dream about her and it really bothers me. I wonder what in her chart made her do this
    Here's all I know about her chart -
    Sun - Sagittarius
    Moon - Taurus
    Venus - Libra
    Mars - Capricorn
    Mercury - Scorpio


    I can't blame her though. You've actually been pretty stubborn about your relationship which clearly, isn't working out. (just being honest here) if I have a friend like you (which frankly, I do have at the moment), it just gets tiring at some point. At some point, I don't want to associate with that friend anymore because as much as I care, it is also annoying to listen to that person ask, worry and complain without putting any solid action to make a change. This is just based on the threads you've created about the guy you're with.


    You do realize this this was 2 yrs ago and I've been with my boyfriend from even before that (Touchwood). You do realize we've been through all the ups and downs? How are relationships without ups and downs even possible? I said something bad about his character, told him he was using me for sex, but I failed to realize how it must've hurt him. When he lashed out at me I got really hurt. I apologized to him, he took me back and that's when my friend asked me to choose. She had no idea what I'd said to him. But did she have a right to do so, do you get someone to choose between you and the person they really love?
    This was 2 yrs ago, how does it look like 'clearly not working' to you? Do you yourself take an exit as soon as something goes wrong?


    You've actually been posting about issues with him since you came on this website. Its not about taking an exit when something goes wrong. It's actually assessing whether it's worth the fight or not. Sure, relationships aren't easy. But, it doesn't have to be SO hard. Maybe she's not really making you choose. You're friend is just tired of talking about it. So for her, either you listen or you just move on without her. I personally get to that point with a friend who just won't listen. Would complain about the bf every single time. I give advise on what to do. Never listens but then calls me again to complain about the same thing. It's just not worth it. People have their limits you know. And at the end of the day, if your bf leaves because it's not working out, you will eventually reach out to your friend again and things will be OK. But I don't think she wants to be around while you're in that state because it's so unhealthy.


    No it's not unhealthy. You keep forgetting that we've been together for a while. Stuff happens. And this isn't about my relationship with my boyfriend anyway. It's about my friend thinking she had the right to make me choose. She could've left if she wanted but again she crossed a line. Also 1. My boyfriend won't leave 🤞, 2. I'll never go back to her.


    The length of time together doesn't matter. What matters if both of you are equally happy in it. People think they can dump friends because of boyfriends. But as it happens, when things fall apart, we always run back to our friends. Especially the long time friends.


    Yeah we're happy


    Also, "happy" don't translate to consistent negative posts about your rs. If you both are happy as you say, there shouldn't be any further issues that you should be posting about on here. Many people already pointed out many things to you before. Learn to listen especially if many people have been telling you the same thing. Otherwise, no one will bother to listen to you anymore or give you advise.


    What the fuck are you getting up my ass for? I don't give one fuck about what anyone says. I come here for advice to decode his behavior, not for some obnoxious snooty person to tell me we're happy or not or whether this relationship is worth it or not. I know it is. I don't care if no one feels that way.


    "I don't give a fuck about what anyone says"
    OK. Sure. If you don't want to listen to people, don't ask for advise. I was giving you an honest opinion. Clearly, you don't get it. Or you actually don't want to hear it because it's not in agreement to how you perceive it. Not much anyone can do about it really.
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