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  • I had this homegirl. Saw her as a sister. We had a falling out and I walked away gracefully. In a nutshell, she wasn't who I thought she was. #mattersoftheheart

    Over a year later, she reaches out to me via text. She started the text basically stating:

    I know how you are when you remove people from your life. I miss you and miss the hell out of you, but wanted to reach out to see if you can meet me on my level. *end*

    Now, I typically don't take kindly to back handed comments or passive aggressiveness. She caught me on a very good eve. So, I overlooked "meet me on my level".

    Later on, I interpreted that to mean that she thought, thinks, she's better than me. And, or, that I want what she has/is envious of her.

    Weird. I don't want anything she has. Furthermore, she's the first "friend" to ever bring that type of tone/topic (jealousy), into the equation.

    My questions:

    Have you ever had a friend who believed you to be jealous of them? Or covetous?

    How is the friendship now?

    Do you feel "better than" your friend(s)?

    What makes you feel this way?

    Needless to say, by the end of the texting convo, I reminded her of why she lost her place in my life to begin with.