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    Joined dxpnet on September 05, 2019.
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    He’s making future plans with you which is a good sign he sees long term potential. As for the kids thing, if you think you’d may want one or more in the future now is the perfect time to get your eggos frozen. Surrogates cost about the same as a new car so it’s not out of reach financially if in the future you’d go that route with him.

    As far as reliability how is he when you spend weekends together? Does he help you around the house? Cook clean laundry that kinda thing? Help you walk the dog or do groceries runs? How are you as a team?

    It’s early days still but you should begin to discover more about how you two work together. Also when he brings up the future kids talk ask him how he envisions it. Does he see you both working and splitting the household and kiddo duties? Or would he want you to stay home and play housewife.

    Again early days here, next up you go from exclusive to bf/gf. Then move in and live together. Then get knocked up oops 😬 haha.

    I’ve been with my Gemini 5ish years and he’s been the more reliable one. He loves a good routine. Being quarantined together ahead of moving in together has been a good dry run. I will say they love their freedom. And I love mine. So it’s nice to be with someone who isn’t jealous of my time.
    If you give him space and freedom he’ll bounce back 2xs as strong. Just roll with the changes when plans change.
    For us, before covid, we’d have one day per week that was ours and while we’d usually see each other a few times per week there was security in knowing that there’s was that sacred time we’d keep for each other no matter what else is happening in our lives.


    Coming back to your very pertinent questions and the useful input you've provided (which I really appreciate).
    He does help me around the house, sometimes cooks for me (though he prefers my cooking smile), folds my laundry, carries the groceries, waters my plants, all that stuff.

    And in the last 2 weeks he's been more careful about making and keeping plans with me, while I've stopped taking his flakiness personally.

    From where I'm standing, it looks like he's putting effort into moving the relationship forward. However, from time to time he'll make jokes about me not wanting children, which may be his way of checking if I haven't changed my mind. So I suppose we'll be having another talk about this soon...