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    Posted by Gobby
    Posted by sweethearts
    You don’t owe any explanation, if he hurt your wrist while he was holding it, it sounds like he was frustrated that you freaked out and pulled away. He’s the one that needs to understand what you’ve been through and take things a lot slower and if he doesn’t, I wouldn’t go anywhere near him! You need someone that is gentle and patient with your situation, not someone that is forceful and only takes his needs into consideration.

    I understand that you have established an attraction for him but you need to step back and make sure that this is the type of person that you really want to be moving forward with. Assess it now with open eyes before you get in too deep.


    She doesn't need anyone because all she's doing is hurting others, instead of fixing herself.

    You and her are making the same mistake, believing in the bullshit Hollywood theory that the right person will make everything right. Wrong!

    As for the wrist incident, we don't know the full details of why that came about (let alone if it happened at all or if the events have been exaggerated). Such a distraction from the heart of the matter could simply be a ploy to make the OP be perceived in a more sympathetic light...
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    People come on here with their story the way they see it. It’s their story and yes people can see other things going on that the OP doesn’t clearly see and try to advise.

    You make some valid points Gobby but you’re so hell bent on bagging people out and belittling them that your points are lost. Still trying to work out whether you thrive off it or you can’t yourself see the way you’re coming across and invalidating your own advice!