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    Posted by WarAngel
    Posted by Mamita91
    Posted by WarAngel
    Posted by Mamita91
    Posted by WarAngel
    Posted by Mamita91
    I'm a taurus with cancer venus and Mars, and aries moon and mercury.
    He is scorpio with libra venus and moon and Mars, and sagittarius Mercury.

    I am 29 and he is 34.

    We met a month ago and he said I am better than the photos because of my soul, that he is no longer in a zen mode because he's fallen for me. We spent days together and it was bliss, just so natural and good and we opened up about lots of things, things I hadn't told many ppl or took years to tell.

    He went to Spain last week until the end of August, and kept inviting me, saying I should go with him and work from there. On one of our last days he asked when would I go, and I suggested 2 sepárate dates and he said he couldn't and best another time. I suggested another weekend and he said he couldn't and maybe we could go somewhere in September instead. I got upset and said they were just words, how could I trust everything he said if the invitation was fake.

    He was upset and on the verge of tears, as it was our goodbye and we were at the train station and we weren't going to see each other for a long time. Anyway my dad told me he was playing me and not to trust him, so I told the guy that it was best we take a break. He said he didn't want that, that he likes me and doesn't want to separate with me. He apologised for the misunderstanding, and said he doesn't want roller-coaster with me. So we agreed to forget it and move on. He called me the next day and we spoke for over 30 min, some flirting and back to normal.

    We've been texting and flirting but over the days he's been getting more and more quiet. He no longer calls me pretty or nicknames, and yesterday I texted him something nice at lunch time and he didn't reply, then I said good night and asked how his weekend was, and he was on WhatsApp for over an hour but didn't answer me.

    Is there a way to come back from this?
    Any insight appreciated, I'm really hurt. Thank you


    The best thing you can do is back away. You pushed away his sincere offer and now he's not sure what to do.

    If he does come back, you have to play it cool and let him do the chasing. It doesn't hurt to date other men until that happens.


    I'm thinking of apologising for overreacting, that it isn't a reflection of who I am. I'm normally a very laid back person, but I genuinely thoght it was an offer and was looking forward to seeing him in Spain. I want to be a better person and learn from this. What do u think?


    You can apologize but it would put you in a lesser position. You were right to get angry though. Maybe the both of you should try to be more flexible in making plans to see each other.

    You've only been seeing each other for one month. Usually relationships that precede that quickly don't work out long-term. Maybe suggest that you take it slowly to truly understand if this man is sincere or full of shit.


    Why would it put me in a lessee position out of curiosity? I do feel I overreacted so we were both in the wrong, this was last weekend but he's gone so quiet the past 2 days


    Because you are not in the right state of mind to negotiate what you want from this emerging relationship. Unless you were yelling or screaming at each other, your request was not too demanding.

    Let him reach out to you and in the meantime date other men. Obsessing over him is only hurting yourself.
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    Thank you smile there was no yelling but I was visibly upset, and told him a few times that I'm in pain. I'm going on a couple of dates this week but couldn't sleep last night just thinking about this. He said I have 0 confidence in him and that I overthink, but I wouldn't have opened up so much to him if I didn't trust him.