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    Posted by Centaur12
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    Here is what I have learned, my situation is different to yours however I am a Sagittarius male with a Gemini woman.
    My Gem has an ex partner who she was on and off with for years as he also is a Sag male.
    She has two young children with him and they two years ago never went back to eachother as he is an alcoholic and use to smash her house up with the children there and also want to come back to her house kicking her door in every weekend etc.
    However she did sleep with him last October time 2019 she did say she made a mistake and stopped it right away being true or not I don't know nor do I care as that was before we was together we got together in December 2019.
    The worry does come across my mind that she will eventually end up back there with him as they have children together etc who knows? I hope not as I love her.
    She has also told me she loves me never felt this way before never had a connection in the bedroom like this before wants to marry me.
    But then I get from her I wouldn't marry you right now because of whats gone on lately in the relationship etc.
    I get the vibe that my partner wants me and that life together and the other half she wants her independence and I would never strip her of that it would just mean a different thing.
    A gemini is repersented by the twins one twin wants one thing and the other wants something else this is why they are so dam hard to tie down or figure out what they want so usually they shoot there self in the foot.
    There's no doubt he loves you or would of loved you. He just doesn't no what he wants, hasn't figured it out for him self and if you think he is the one or whatever you want to call it then be the person he's afraid to loose but do not let him walk all over you at the same time.
    Me and my partner I am still trying to figure her out we are always hot and cold strange really as being a Sag I am full of adventure and she also being a gem is as well, however she gets some bad mood swings and it let's her down and I also question alot if she really loves and cares about me the way she says as one minuet she's all over me and the next she can be quiet reserved and cold.


    Wow youre going through it aswell! Since i made this post he has actually gone back to his ex, i just know he will contact me because he gets bored! I at this point am pretty much done, i do love him but i cant keep playing these games its ridiculous, the one thing i found out off his ex and his family is that he has cheated on her for the whole 22 years they have been together, i am the first one hes been with for a while and left her for, that however doesnt make me feel better because im just repeating the same cycle with him over and over!
    I hope your journey with your Gemini goes better than mine! I truly have never felt a connection like it but this gemini is the wrong one for me!


    Sorry to hear this.

    Thing is being a Sag we are always thinking forward and thinking about our future.

    Geminis live for now not the future.

    Its a hard one as I left my Sagittarius ex for my partner now I know this makes me sound terrible however I went through hell with my ex to the point it made me feel sick.

    My relationship was pretty much built on guilt and trust issues but we have got past all that now.

    I do however wonder if we will ever work out and what direction we are actually going in yet my partner has had number of occasions to walk away and has told me she loves me to much to do that and its too hard for her.

    Basically she hates the fact my ex who I have two young children with is still hanging around some of my family members however she has known them and made relationships for the past 10 years.


    He told me that his ex is toxic and all they do is argue, when he leaves her they all harrass him all day and night until he finishes with me goes back to her, its ridiculous, i just dont think he has the balls to leave her and keep away from her.


    He probably got attached to her along the way and needs that buzz from her basically using her as a play toy by the sounds of it you to.
    I would definitely call him bluff, say to him this ends now or I will never come back and then instead of him blocking you, you block him.
    Stand up for your self like the fire sign you are, you deserve better never let anyone bring you down to there level!!.
    Also what age are you guys just asking.


    He has been doing this to her for 22 years and she has let him, thankfully he has only done this to me for a year, i have no interest in starting anything back up with him, my head is ruling my heart now, to me it doesnt matter how i feel about him, im done with his games, he can continue doing it to her but not me, im ashamed to say she is the same sign as me lol because i only put up for so long and im gone, she has done this with him for 22 years with 4 children along the way, his daughters are also in similar relationships, they break up they get back together etc. Sad really! I am 47 and he is 40, all i want is for the wierd stalking to stop on the dating app, its getting to a point where i darent speak to anyone incase its him! Plus i would like his partners friends to stop messaging me asking me if i am talking to him, its just getting to be a bore!


    Amazing really, two different ages apart, as I am 29 and my partner also yet had similar things.
    Also funny as my partner Gem her ex being a Sag and me also a Sag and your side two female Sag with one Gem male 😅.
    I have found my Gem loves in a different way to me tho like we both love eachother just show it in different ways and sometimes that can lead to misunderstandings between us .
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    My gemini is extremely affectionate, i too am a really affectionate person with my partner, it was instant when we saw each other, he said he doesnt get that kind of affection from his partner, he actually said its like living with his sister! Not sure if he meant that or not, either way he keeps going back, his youngest daughter is only 15 so i think a lot of it is to do with her, as it is now and the year we have all had though, i know his family would never accept me and thats important to me, so in reality regardless of feelings me and him are never going to work, it's difficult because ive truly never felt a connection like it but at some point common sense has to kick in, it hurts a little more every time he does it and i genuinely can't do it to myself anymore, i do hope you have more success though!