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Trying to get some insight from the Leo lady’s on this, do you or have you gone back to an ex? And what makes you do so? And what are your thoughts on the below??
I’m in a situation now with one, I have a post about it under relationships, I was pretty unavailable due to my own life circumstances and mental health at the time and I know it drew on her forsure and brought her down a little just generally because that’s where I was at. We never really talked about the big main issues because I didn’t know what to tell her, she pretty much planned the split for after Christmas and things were still good between us but I kinda lost my shit one day and forced a meet up to try and talk like 2 weeks after the split, out of my own life frustration the conversation got negative because I focused on small things she did that didn’t even truly matter and I upset her by it. I’ve apologized and I’ve tried to convey where I was at in life and the problems I was facing(she was aware of the problems I was getting hit with, during the relationship) but it’s like she doesn’t care, doesn’t want to look at things differently than how she wants to look at it. 4 months into the break up, I’m in a much better life spot and I tried shooting my shot over text cause she’s kind of blown me off on meeting up, she told me she 100% physically and mentally doesn’t want to be with me right now and that if we got back together she doesn’t know what it’s look like or if she’d be able to look at me the same.. I tried telling her she’s only basing that off how I was at my lowest low and that I was dealing with real life problems.
I know her last serious relationship she went back to her ex several times, not sure how bad things got for them at times but I know it ended bad with him and his family kinda of verbally trashing her.
Thank you for any input
I’m in a situation now with one, I have a post about it under relationships, I was pretty unavailable due to my own life circumstances and mental health at the time and I know it drew on her forsure and brought her down a little just generally because that’s where I was at. We never really talked about the big main issues because I didn’t know what to tell her, she pretty much planned the split for after Christmas and things were still good between us but I kinda lost my shit one day and forced a meet up to try and talk like 2 weeks after the split, out of my own life frustration the conversation got negative because I focused on small things she did that didn’t even truly matter and I upset her by it. I’ve apologized and I’ve tried to convey where I was at in life and the problems I was facing(she was aware of the problems I was getting hit with, during the relationship) but it’s like she doesn’t care, doesn’t want to look at things differently than how she wants to look at it. 4 months into the break up, I’m in a much better life spot and I tried shooting my shot over text cause she’s kind of blown me off on meeting up, she told me she 100% physically and mentally doesn’t want to be with me right now and that if we got back together she doesn’t know what it’s look like or if she’d be able to look at me the same.. I tried telling her she’s only basing that off how I was at my lowest low and that I was dealing with real life problems.
I know her last serious relationship she went back to her ex several times, not sure how bad things got for them at times but I know it ended bad with him and his family kinda of verbally trashing her.
Thank you for any input