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    So this guy (30/m) I’m (22/f) seeing just broke up with his ex recently. He wanted to marry her but it didn’t work out. He met me, we hooked up, and spent a week together when I flew out to see him. 2 days later he sends me a text saying he’s working things out with his ex, that we’re just friends, and to take this picture I had added on social media down (from the week we spent together), then he unfollowed me and I saw that he added his ex back. Fast forward 2 weeks later he added me back on social media and saw that he and the ex unfollowed each other. He told me that broke up again the night before. Anyways, I flew back out to see him 3 weeks after they broke up again.

    The first time I was here (last month) as I said he called me his friend and told me he didn’t want him getting in the way of me meeting other guys. Now that I’m back out here his friends wanted to go out so I went with him which I took as a good sign that he wanted me to meet his friends. So now I’m convinced he only said those things (saying we were just friends and not to get in the way of meeting other men) because he felt forced to by the ex and didn’t really mean it.

    Here’s a little more back story:

    We met through my cousin and they’re really good friends. My cousin is also really good friends with the ex. Both parties have confided in so my cousin so she has the inside scoop.

    They were broken up for 5 months. Went full NC for 2 or 3 months. I met him months prior, no hanging out yet. He unfollowed me on IG when when they started talking again but not together. He was supposed to go be with her and her family for the holidays and then that’s when they went full NC for 2 months. He added me back and then eventually made plans to see him vday weekend.

    During the 2 months they went NC I was told he was crying over her, making posts about her, 2 days before I flew out there he even made a post with her initials saying he missed her, bought tickets for a June concert because he knew she’d be there and was hoping to run into her, and even contacted her mom. So apparently he kept trying but she kept ignoring him. Then on vday, when I was here, he contacted her to say happy vday. I left a few days later and that same day that I left he asked her to go to dinner. This is when he texted me saying he was working things out with her, they had gone to dinner, and that we were just friends, stop making and to take down all posts about my visit. He was also upfront with her about me.

    So while they briefly got back together he had talked about how she was going to be his wife and the mother of his children. So he found out that she had seen someone while they were broken up. He got really upset and angry about it and told her now he’s unsure if he wanted to be with her. She in turn got all dramatic and she kicked him to the curb a few weeks later. He begged for her to stay but she still broke up with him. The very next day after their breakup he added me back on social media, and 3 weeks later now I’m here. So I’m out here with his friends again. I do know after meeting me the first time his friend said, “don’t screw it up with the *ex’s name*, she’s the best you’re ever going to get”. So I thought he was bringing me around again so that his friends could get to know me better. So all good signs?

    So yea, all of this was told to me by cousin and she and she showed me some of the screenshots.

    So my question is, has this Leo man developed feelings for me/like me? I just don’t think a Leo man will spend days with you (I’m out here for a week) and have you meet his friends unless he has feelings for you and it’s not about sex.


    Another thing:

    Stop dating men almost 10 years your senior. They are out of your league, and out of your depth of understanding.

    You girls love to think you’re doing something getting with these older guys but the reality is, majority of the time, he’s with you for one thing, and it’s not cuz you’re some nymph in the bedroom. I bet you that Leo has part of him on lock cuz she’s some of the best sex he’s ever had.

    Point? Most guys who entertain a little girl almost 10 years younger are just doing it to play games. You’re easy, naive, emotionally immature, inexperienced at life, and too arrogant to heed anyone’s warnings—-that makes you the PERFECT type of girl to run game on while he waits for ex to take him back.


    Lol.. i always am with guys older than me. Never been played by them. Never younger, never the same age. The closest one is 2 years, that one was the one that destroyed me the most lol..

    So im sticking to older guys.. 4-10 years, i think it's the matter of preference.

    But back to the topic right here, OP is seriously dumb. It's not the matter of age gap, it's just a matter of her being delusional 🤪🤣


    I didn’t say it’s not possible for a younger woman to date older. I said OP CANNOT date older.

    There are two groups of women who date older:

    • Women—who are actually little girls, and think they’re doing something by dating an older man because they think: “I’m young, so I’m special,” or “he thinks I’m so mature, I can’t be bothered with kids my age...” it’s like a power trip. But while their confidence is rising, so is their beau’s ego—a recipe for disaster.

    •Women who are legitimately light years ahead of their peers in emotional intelligence, career goals, etc.

    Op is the first set of women, and she has no business with this man. And this man has no business entertaining a girl who still believes red flags can turn into a “Notebook, fairytale ending.”


    Tbh I'm a mix of both types of women you listed (I'm 22 tho). I can be a bit childish and all my air placements don't help. But my boundaries are set in stone. If I am ever in a position where what I'm giving is greater than what I'm receiving I walk out. Reciprocation is everything. I believe in love and want a forever love but self-respect and dignity matter far more than my emotions. When it comes to men the way they treat you is usually how they feel about you. They are simple creatures.

    OP is being treated like a doormat/rag. How can he like her when he doesn't even respect her?


    The fact that you can admit you’re both, says a lot about your maturity. Give yourself more credit, you’re light years ahead than most women. I wish I knew half this stuff at 22 🙏🏽
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