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    Joined dxpnet on October 21, 2015.
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by shellshocker
    I can see why he lied. Doesn't make it right, but I get it.

    Some women want to be very involved with their bf's children to the point they want to join in all activities, birthdays, holidays and events. Even try to befriend the mother and cement themselves in the man's life through the child. If the man wants to keep things separate, the new gf can become offended, jealous and accuse the man of not loving her enough or not taking their relationship seriously if he won't "open up" all aspects of his life to her.

    Not a great way to start a relationship and the temptation to avoid any potential drama where children are concerned, can be strong. When a woman doesn't allow a new love interest into her children's life she's a protective mother. It's not allows viewed the same with men.

    I've seen this more times than I haven't.

    Not saying the Scorpio was like this but in the beginning of a relationship you never know how a person will react.
    3 years is crazy long though, dude messed up.


    No there's no excuse for this.

    I can understand in the early days of dating but not after:

    She introduces him to her daughter
    He moves into her home
    3 years go by!

    And she had no idea he even had a kid. W t f


    If it was the other way around a man would not think she was “wife” material and she would be practically labeled a dead beat mom!
    It just comes off shady AF
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    Its extremely shady.
    Op is asking how he builds back trust with her.
    Forget building back trust with him. She's gonna need a hell of alot of therapy and time and soul searching to be able to trust ANYONE in the future.
    This shit is verrrryyyyy damaging.