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    Here's an update I have ghosted gem and she de friended me on Facebook because I updated my profile picture of just myself and not me and her I have shifted my energy away from her and onto my self and she said I can't be on your Facebook while you flaunt yourself she said I am going to find it hard the next few weeks.
    Anyway long story short I have woken up to her texting me this morning all opplogetic towards me saying she is going to work on her self and that she wants me and saying she understand about the kids and she said do I want to stay with her at hers with my kids etc. I have told her I don't think it's a good idea right now and that we need space in order to sort anything.


    Stick to your guns and keep her at arms length. If she msgs you, don't be all over responding. Keep distance.


    I am doing just that she wanted to meet me and I have just cancelled last minuet on her going to do some decorating at my place instead.


    Cancelling on her last minute is just going to seem like games. You obviously agreed to meet her originally, that's not keeping her at arms length. If you don't wanna meet up, tell her that, don't say you're gonna then bail. That's just creating more of a mess.


    If he were truly serious about being done with her, he would not respond to her at all...Her texting him, and he responding, is her way of keeping tabs on him.


    Agreed. He is saying one thing but doing another. Saying he wants space, but still making plans with her. That's not gonna work.


    I have told her I want space but she is being persistent in wanting to see me and is saying to me everytime I have done wrong to her she never stayed away from me so she is being manipulative.


    You're right, she is being manipulative, so why are you still feeding it? She can't manipulate someone who has withdrawn from her. We've been telling you the same thing over and over for months and nothing is has changed in your relationship or in how you approach it. Simply taking space won't resolve the issue either.. do you think she is going to miraculously change how she feels about your kids or stop trying to manipulate you just because you take some space? She is still trying to manipulate you and telling you that you are doing something wrong when you try to focus on yourself. No matter how much time you take, she is going to be the same person when you return. We've been telling you to leave her for months, if you're not going to then please stop posting your drama here cause you're just beating a dead horse. We've exhausted ourselves with solutions for you, but you're still feeding her childish bs, so there is nothing more we can help you with, the rest is on you.


    πŸ™†β€β™‚οΈπŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ I know your right as well all I am going to do is see if she can change if I smell one bit of bullshit I am off I kind of know she has already shown me it by being persitent at seeing me and when told I want space she uses manipulation.
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    And yet again, you stay in the cycle of this relationship... πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈIt will never change