Report Webpage

  • User Submitted Image
    female
    Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
    Posted by Centaur12
    Posted by blackphvse
    Posted by Centaur12
    Posted by blackphvse
    Posted by Centaur12
    Posted by sweethearts
    Your instincts Are spot on... the minute you go back and she has you back where you were, she’ll flip on you again. She’s lost control and is trying to get that back. Nothing will change though, whether you give in now, a week or a month from now...


    Will she change can she change does she want to change well she has told me yes but will she really only time will tell until then I am going to keep her at more of a distance and do me as well.


    I already told you she won't dude. Why would she change when what she is doing has been working?
    Think about it. This happens every single fkn time. You come back being like "we talked, she is sorry, but I'm still keeping her at arms length" it's bullshit. You're still feeding into it and everything she has been doing is working in her favour so she isn't gonna change. But you obviously don't really care and are gonna continue with it anyways.


    It may of just worked a little this time though I ignored her text phone calls etc and she was taken back saying she feels hurt and realises what she's done wrong either way it don't matter like I said if I smell one bit of her being off them I'm outta here.


    Of course she is gonna be upset and feel hurt if you're acting colder than usual. Doesn't mean anything will change. How many times has she said she relaizes what she has done is wrong? I've seen you post about her saying that more than once and nothing has changed.


    True, I feel like its really hit home on her this time I just got off the phone to her and she is still president that there is something wrong with me saying I have changed etc not the same person since our last falling out she cant put her finger on it so she's saying and then saying I am respecting what you have said and what you want etc. Every time I have her on the phone she is saying it sounds like you don't want to be with me etc it isn't that it's the fact I aint showing her my emotions or interest as much anymore.
    click to expand


    So now you’re just playing the game... the game that you will eventually lose and the one you’ll create another thread about.

    Nothing has or will change in this relationship, it’ll go around and back and forth as it has always done because you both speak completely differently languages and neither is prepared or can learn the others language.

    Sorry, as much as you want this, it’ll never work... there’ll always be something.