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  • Posted by geminiflyby
    Sorry, Gem - I hope you take some of the advice here. I left my cheating Scorp in similar fashion. The relationship is over so you have to plan your exit. Give him just enough affection to keep his attention off of you. Save your money, line up a place to live. Drop the fantasy that things will change. You actually have the upper hand because knowledge is power.


    Thank you Gem! I reread this thread so many times as I can to keep the advice seeping through this brain of mine. As someone mentioned, it is a battle of heart and head. I want to believe this is a slip up of him just wanted new sex.

    Your advice sounds VERY similar to my sisters. She said keep doing the same thing but understand it isnt what I think it is and keep saving my money. That he is there to be in our childrens lives everyday and I am a bonus piece to keep happy. He loves me but not like that and probably I do not like him like that either, I am just used to him. We actually got in a minor argument about that statement. She told me that we were never really compatible and while he is a great person, we would have been better just friends. That if I was to really think about things, I would know that maybe we did only get married because he felt like that was the obligatory thing to do. I don't see any of this yet and maybe this will come with time.