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    Joined dxpnet on July 10, 2021.
    Posted by Gemlou123
    Posted by CancerCancer
    Hi All smile

    I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.
    We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.
    He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.

    Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.
    Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.
    He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…
    He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!

    I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.
    One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.

    I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.

    I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.

    Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.

    Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!


    Hi I was with a scoripo for three years and he wasent like that ... That is bang out of order how he is treating you .. You should say to him if you really think that little of me and don't trust me why do you want to be with me ... This is his own insecurities and protecting them in to you why should you have to be walking in egg shells worring what he's going to think of say next tell him if he carrys on you will walk away it will slowly but surely chip away at you and bring you down ... Is he doing something wrong because a lot of the time the acuser is always the dooer ... A guilt concience .. Xxx hope you ok x
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    Aw thank you. When I trust I just do so didn’t think about what he is doing wrong. Maybe something I need to keep an eye on but I don’t want to not trust him and be paranoid.
    I told him if he couldn’t trust me it was his problem not mine as I was not doing anything wrong!
    We had incredible three nights together and now will be apart for a couple days from today. I hope he is sweet and calm during that period like he was last few days. Thanks a lot ☺️