Posted by MyStarsShine Posted by sweethearts Posted by MyStarsShine Posted by sweethearts Posted by MyStarsShine
Coward
Yep I’ll admit that, I don’t like confrontation if I can avoid it. If I ghost someone it is because we aren’t in a relationship so I don’t really owe you any explanation. I’ve just walked away.
I don’t see it that way
We are all human beings with feelings and just being honest with someone isn’t much to ask ... it’s a matter of respect to me.
What excuse would you rather hear??
The truth is preferable to me than just leaving someone hanging
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People say they want the truth but can they really handle the truth. What if you’re not pretty enough or skinny enough or you’re boring to that person, do you really want to hear that? What does that do to someone’s self esteem and is it really necessary to potentially hurt someone more than just walking away?
It’s similar to wanting and expecting closure when you’ve been in a relationship with someone. What is closure to one May not suit the other. The other might be constantly saying… why? And the why generally is, why don’t you want me?