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    Female Cancer sun Leo moon Leo rising
    Joined dxpnet on September 17, 2018.
    Hi
    I’m sure this topic is common, but I really want to know if this is a red flag. I know I’ll get different answers from men and women.

    I really like this guy but I have an issue. He’s all over social media. He has a Facebook, Instagram, Tik Tok, Linkedin. I think Twitter too. I’m so much different in that aspect. I only have a Facebook which I rarely use but it’s only to communicate with my long distance family and friends. I used to be into social media but I think, as you age, you become more mature and you care less about being popular.

    The reason why my crush is all over social media is because he works in marketing and he’s a social media manager or something like that. He doesn’t work for a company but he’s self employed and has his own marketing business. So he uses all those social media accounts to attract clients, make connections, make his business grow, etc.
    I recently saw his following list and discovered that he follows a few attractive/provocative girls. These girls are in bikinis or showing a lot of skin dancing or just seeking validation. It makes me jealous and insecure because I don’t post any sexy photos of myself. I just post normal photos, which sometimes he likes or sometimes he’ll ignore. Also, these girls are young, like in their 20s and I’m a lot older. I’m in my early 30s.

    I totally understand that men are visual creatures but one thing is to look at a hot woman walking by and another thing is to follow a woman to constantly see her posts and get aroused by them. I don’t know if I’m exaggerating or is this is a “normal” thing now a days that I need to accept. I bet you since he uses social media for his job, he’s bombarded every day with pictures and videos of these girls. I wish he used social media strictly for work but it seems he uses it for entertainment too.
    Can you tell me your opinions on this? Should it bother me?