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    "Ascendant: Aquarius Sun: Leo Moon: Virgo Mercury: virgo Venus: Le
    41 years old female from seattle, USA
    Joined dxpnet on June 18, 2009.
    Posted by LibraTopcat
    Give me your EXPERIENCES. What are the advantages and Disadvantages of abstaining.
    When do you recommend having sex? First date? 1 year? when you feel comfortable and it feels right.
    Have you ever waited only to find out that your partner doesn't pleasure you because you have a WILD side and they don't?
    What do you consider abstaining. NOT having anal. Not having Oral, Mutual masterbation...MASTERBATION AT ALL, Not having any sex at all...Not even THROUGH CLOTHES?
    Just for your info...I'm a slut so my opinion doesn't matter.
    I use the word SLUT in the most AWESOME way not in a demeaning way.
    Thank you



    haha, whatever. u know u meant slut in a dirty, hot way. it's ok. it's better when we're honest! heh.
    i abstained for a about a year and half following the break-up of a 7 year relationship. i chose to because i hadn't been single since i started "dating" at 16. i wanted to have time to work on myself in so many words. one major advantage is that i was able to regain that sense of myself as being a whole person with and without having a significant other in my life. after so many years of being attached one can forget about themselves and i think that is folly and unwise.
    i recommend having sex whenever both partners feel it's right. i have not waited with an intent to gain any more out of a potential relationship through sex if that makes any sense. i do have a wild streak and i will say that i only just found my match but i like variety in sex anyway. the down side is that having an inflexible partner, or one that is totally unadventurous, will eventually break the relationship. sex is an important expression of love for me. if my man is into more of the vanilla variety it is ok as long as he compromises with me. it's a give and take after all.
    abstaining to me means no vaginal or anal sex. everything else is up for grabs. mmm, mutual masturbation. i love performing for my partner then watching him work himself excitedly from watching me. such a turn on!