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    Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
    1. I am a libra! And we get ourselves so worked up about guys, SO fast and most times, completely unwarrented. This is something I know about myself and really really am fighting to not fantasize a life with him, but focus on the REALITY of him...tough for me, but easy, because it's him...
    Yes muse...get the facts first before getting carried away in your head, so easily done with us reading into their suggestions or statements. Ask blunt questions and dont be afraid of the answers. I found that I had to do exactly that and now things are much more clearer on his/our intentions...but before that I was second guessing what he was saying and reading more or sometimes less into it! As you are already in a good friendship with him you can trust that he will be more open to telling you...that comes because there already is an element of trust/honor.

    2. Our friendship is very valuable to me, and I know it is to him also. It's a strange feeling to be so protective of that aspect that it's almost paralyzing to do anything about the growing physical and emotional aspect of our relationship. He really is one of my greatest friends.
    I felt exactly that!!! ^^^^^ still do in some ways, too scared to cross the line of no return, but truth of the matter is...we already have...in our minds and what has been expressed. (I wont see him til Feb & it's been 14 yrs since i have...) I have experienced some insecurities since we reconnected 8 months ago...and even when I felt that maybe he had someone else or maybe he wasnt as genuine as I had thought and I went through personal anguish...at the end, I came back to...if he is happy then I'll be happy for him. I couldnt think badly of him and I think it's because the friendship is too deep to be ruined...But you will have to come to this conclusion yourself, and I'm sure you will;

    3. He's given me enough indication that he wants me to move there, that he is excited about it. That he really cares for me as a friend and lover. I don't need more of a reason to see if there is something important here, there is, and I'm going to find out what...
    Good for you, better to have loved and lost than not at all!!!! Put down your guard and forget what other men may have done and take a chance on love...who better to trust this to than a best friend?