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    Joined dxpnet on November 27, 2009.
    Appreciate ALL your answers. Thanks!!
    A little more to the story.......

    1. He told me to let go and said he was "over all of it" and "goodbye"(we were still ex's). Asked me not to call or text. Ignored my calls the next few days. I left harsh voicemailes. It wasn't full on betrayal and something he is not taking ownership for (not cheating related). He has said the same "goodbye" "over all of it" when upset and later comes around, so I don't know if to take it seriously or to knock on his shell.
    2. Been ex's for ten months. I still deeply love him. He calls me drunk and at times not drunk and confesses how he still deeply loves me, thinks of me, hasn't been with anyone and reason being "no one is like you". Yet, he admits he doesn't trust us, is afraid, and wishes he could trust me again and says he wants to trust me so much (never cheated on him, hurt his feeling in other ways).
    5. Related to the loss that he is going through, I feel deep down that I should be of support and that he needs me, for some reason. I want to check in on him and let him know he is not alone and let him know I love and care for him, but am having a hard time doing so when someone just cuts me out instead of having an adult conversation to see where both parites are coming from. I guess that it's too much to ask for since he is a cancer or not???
    So, should I send him a warm message showing him support???
    And, he says he always thinks he has moved on and then starts remembering me and realizes how he hasn't and how he loves me. He calls me and expresses these things and then pulls away confusing me and then says he was just remembering.
    Also, I suggested that he dated other women as his friends tell him to do so since he is ping ponging around and confusing both of us. He got upset and told me that he resented my statement. WTF???
    What are your imputs please?