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    all of the above is very interesting. a virgo friend of mine who's also dating an aries said that she doesn't like conflict and she grew up with her parents fighting all the time and didn't want that in a relationship. this comment was about a disagreement she and i recently had. and i told her pretty much what M.I.A. said, there's a difference between a debate and an argument. there's a difference between yelling and loud-talking. and her not being able to recognize the difference is not my problem. i think that's all the fire in my chart speaking Winking
    i guess i feel a lil odd complaining about him fighting because i do recognize that there's a difference between a real argument and what aries perceives as a debate. i love a healthy debate myself...read my posts, can you not tell? *lol* so the issue is more his debate style and the topics on which he chooses to debate. i'd much rather have a discussion about politics than the best way to exercise.
    @LovelyMA - i think your leo might be just as baffled as i am with my aries. are you arguing about stuff that matters? i know, it matters to you and that's enough smile
    are they sensitive? YES! they're vulnerable with people they care about so if i were you, i wouldn't fault him for being this way. it's a sign that he trusts you. they can't be lions 24-7. they turn into kitties when it's time to recharge their batteries. better that he do this around you than on his own.
    as far as leo's argument style , leos don't argue. once they offer their opinion, in their mind, discussion is over. for you, it may not be, but for them, it's like when a king makes a final decree. when my leo-ex would go silent, the argument wasn't exactly over. he would bring it back up...during sex. and at that point, i wasn't putting up much of a fight.