I dunno, man... I'd rather speak about my problems with another guy, or at least a woman who can think BOTH like a guy AND a girl, since these types are more objective.
Way I see it, I don't wanna talk about it if all you wanna do is talk about it.
Some peeps are so bent on becoming a"rock" they actually forget that with dudes there is that belief that in opening up and talking about a problem there is the goal of reaching a solution afterwards.
In other words, sweet nothings ("It'll be all right" blah blah) are just that: sweet nothings.
Would rather have a dude call me a p**sy. Make me hike my balls up and sh** and stop feeling sorry for myself.