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    " I'm not afraid, but I don't want to be hurt.
    38 years old female
    Joined dxpnet on January 17, 2007.
    Posted by zenalchemy
    ^^^ your scorp moon will probably attract taurus - opposite sign effect.

    bulls love their homes...and creature comforts who doesn't?

    There is too much focus on the externalities of aries and taurus...
    - homebody, predictable, calm, domestic, etc, does not strictly equal taurus. The major difference between aries and taurus is the methods with which they deal with the same issues/things, the way their mind functions, etc... these are subconscious, that causes the usual issues... it can be resolved with some self-consciousness as long as no one tries to change their natural ways for the other. Acceptance is key for both.


    Thank you. This really makes sense. My need for independence versus his need for complete acceptance seems to be the only issue (if you'd call it that) we have.
    I keep telling him how intuitive I am about people's feelings. He didn't understand really until today. I think he's used to hiding from people; or simply finding people to care for who don't truly care for him. He is very kind; selfless.
    Anyhow, I told him I knew he was scared. He was afraid that my needing a bit of alone time meant bad news on the horizon. It doesn't. He laughed his nervous laugh and kept asking how I knew that.
    It just totally makes sense to me though. I have to understand he is thinking about forever. I have to know this. I have to constantly feel it. At the same time, he needs to understand I need to feel independent. I told him I know I'm not since I'm with him now, but sometimes I need to be fooled.
    Common understanding. Our approach to things is so similar yet based on entirely different things. He is all heart; I am all logic.