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    "Ascendant: Aquarius Sun: Leo Moon: Virgo Mercury: virgo Venus: Le
    41 years old female from seattle, USA
    Joined dxpnet on June 18, 2009.
    Reading this stuff really makes me realize the differences between leos and cancers.
    I am a leo girl with a cancer man. He's pretty typical in a lot of ways and is prone to bouts of moodiness. It's really not all that bad if you come to understand some things. What's hard for us leos is to not take their mood swings so personally. That is absolutely key to getting through them unscathed.
    Remain strong and draw from your own reserves of self-love to keep going. I understand how their moods can really bring us down and cool our natural warmth. It's probably not that his feelings for you have changed at all. In fact, he'll probably love you even more as time goes on if you can ride it out with him and stick by his side. It'll feed his need to feel secure.
    What helps me when he's in a funk, and I feel it start to rub off on me, is to openly discuss the process. I use a gentle approach and just let him know what I'm going through. If I feel that I need some TLC I just tell him and he is there for me. I have come to realize, as a leo myself, that I can go for a while with just a little bit of good lovin'. Also, I keep myself busy and turn to my other adoring fans for the ego boost Tongue I won't lie, it truly does me a world of good to just go out and receive a little attention from others sometimes. I don't need a whole lot of it like some leos do because a little goes a long way for me. It still helps immensely and keeps my warm, loving side firmly in tact.
    So don't play mind games with him. It's a huge turn-off and cancers are much better at emotional blackmail/manipulation than we are. Play up your leonine strengths. So, yes, go do your own thing and take care of you for now. Don't ignore him, let him know you're still there for him, but don't get sucked into his mood is all. Leave him alone and he should return in no time.