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    42 years old female from bay area, ca
    Joined dxpnet on March 03, 2009.
    I am going through this exact problem right now. I have been with my Libra man for just over 2 years. I would most likely have a better grasp on the situation if I could allocate some sort of point in time when things 'went sour' but sex has ALWAYS been a problem with us.
    I am a Cancer - he is a Libra. I am 29, he's 27. Normally in relationships it's ME that has to 'put the brakes on' and tell the man to calm down. But not in this case. In fact this is the first time that I have ever had this problem and I am so embarrassed about it I won't even talk to anyone about the issue.
    I just don't understand how someone can be with someone, in love, in a healthy relationship - and be like that. My Libra ADORES me. He's told me many times how much he loves me, wants to be with me forever, I'm the perfect woman, etc etc.
    So how come no sex?
    He's been battling depression for the entire time that I've known him. Come to find out that he has been this way for most of his life. I am constantly trying to help him along and along the way I have become absolutely exhausted. If it's not financial, it's his job, if it's not his job - it's something else.
    I feel like I can't keep up at this point. I am very nurturing and loving. I dote on him like crazy, I give him lots of space (I've got a lot of Air in my chart - so I don't need constant attention, like many Cancers) and I give him attention when he needs it. (Libra's love admirers, and I am his biggest fan)
    We are so cute together. Everyone is always asking us for advice on being happy, staying together, etc. And on the outside it looks 100% solid.
    But how can a relationship be healthy with little to NO SEX?! Seriously =[