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    37 years old female
    Joined dxpnet on June 27, 2009.
    Posted by Amandus
    Posted by P-Angel
    Take on a little acting part in a play .. be the villian .... face being an asshole publicly just to try it on and see how it feels, and this way, it's you doing it, it's the character, so there can't be any anxieties about how you present yourself.


    Being a villian in a play sounds like a very good idea.
    Haha. But much like your husband I lack in the confidence department. Theres always the video games that I have where I get to kill people and feel good about it.
    I did find though that when I'm using my heart for anything that isn't dark I forget that I have any anxiety. Like when I'm writing romances I feel wonderful.
    Thats what I should be doing right now actually. I still didn't finish that story I came here to do research for. Made the good mistake of signing myself up.

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    I had crippling social anxiety when I was younger, not so crippling anymore but, definitely hasn't gone completely away. The only way I know how to deal with it and the only thing that has helped (I've never done counseling or taken meds for it) is to just put myself out there. Work jobs where I have to interact with people. Again, this is what I've found works for me, better than drinking, which I had done in the past. Anyway, that's just my two cents