Posted by bassace
self-destruction. sometimes i just feel driven to destroy things like that in my life. im not sure why, it doesnt happen all the time. maybe its the smart part of ourselves pushing away the people that the dumb part thinks its ok to hang out with
Yeah I think you're onto something here. I'll get this moment where I find all the things I don't like about that person and say to myself "do you really want to get into something serious with this person?" Which can be very helpful and sobering because I take a min and step out of the infactuation to realize if this is the best idea for me. This is probably why people who pass this test are the ones I end up in relationships with for a long time. Either that or they pass the test then decide I'm not what they want.