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  • This is some advice an older female relative of mine gave me regarding women. This was years back when I went through emotional hell with my cap ex. And she nicely heard me out. The 1st thing she told me was obvious - kick this woman to the curb.
    The 2nd piece of advice she gave was golden. And I always go back to it every time for reference when dating a new woman.

    Here it is:

    Ask the girl this: "What kind of relationship do you have with your father?" If answer is negative ask, "do you hate him?"
    If the next answer to last question is yes, then ask - "Have you gotten counseling or help for it?" If answer's no, then ask - "Do you plan on looking into getting some type of help/assistance on this issue anytime soon?" If answer is no or a rude response then

    RUN THE F--K AWAY, DO NOT SLOW DOWN OR LOOK BACK ONCE!
    She then went on to say "If a girl has an unhealthy/bad relationship with her father, and never seeks help for it, chances are 99.9% she's gonna treat you like dogsh-t forever."
    That didnt make sense completely at first. But after my experience with the cap ex, and dating other women over a period of years, it is so right on the mark.
    So I tell any other guy or gal for that matter to use it as a benchmark when considering potential girlfriends. My motto is life's too short to get treated like crap with one woman. Especially when there are so many other ones who can Winking