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    from a new york state of mind
    Joined dxpnet on October 19, 2009.
    in my opinion it's normal to have crushes when in a relationship. attraction isn't a choice.
    however, how far you allow the attraction to progress IS your choice.
    if you realize that someone is truly tempting you and you are at risk of cheating then you have a choice to make. either limit your time around that individual, because with time a crush's intensity will fade, or give your boyfriend the respect he deserves by admitting that you aren't ready for a committed relationship at this point in your life.
    the grass is always greener on the other side, and that's one of the struggles of being in an LTR. keep in mind that no matter how attractive someone is or how they make you feel, it does not necessarily mean they will make a better boyfriend -FOR YOU- than the one you already have.
    also remember that love is like a calm ocean. its waters are deep and constant. a crush is like a river's rapids. exhilarating, fresh, thrilling and usually pretty risky.
    a crush is like that little black dress that makes you feel sexy and desirable, and love is like the pajamas you've had for years. they fit just right and make you feel so comfortable that you can fall asleep in them.
    a crush is like a shooting star, fleeting. and love is like the sun, returning every day to bring light and warmth to your life.
    ***AHEM*** ok, i'm done with the cheesy comparisons.
    just think about it though.