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    Posted by P-Angel
    Posted by sweethearts
    Me I am so totally Black or White with all my decisions once I come to reach them. Grey is never an area for me, I don't like fence sitters!
    It came about after a dinner with my ex-husband who is in another situation and is still sitting on the fence as he has always done and we talked about why he is where he is!




    It could be that he wouldn't necessarily be sitting on the fence, if you weren't so rigid.
    I'm not saying I think it's a bad thing to not have grey areas, I'm saying maybe he thinks so.

    For example .. my husband is very quick to make a decision, and often times after I've forced him into talking about it, he realizes he was hasty, and could indeed see grey. And often times, I wanted to come to his original conclusion that he jumped on without thought, but, sat on the fence BECAUSE his haste caused him to not see the whole picture.
    So, what I mean is .... maybe your ex would want to consider your decision as conclusive, but, feels that you made the decision without taking all the variables into consideration ... so he's sitting on the fence, waiting for you.
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    Oh hun, NO! I can see what you are saying and yes I agree that he is sitting on the fence because he is unsure but he is doing it publicly so everyone has an opinion!
    He is in fact courting someone else, possibly to marry. (they are very religious) We are great friends but I have just helped him tonight by giving an outsiders opinion on what is going on.