Posted by RealTalk
Posted by Xin
Actually we never were together
It's just I'm too available for him. I like him, but I think I'm around too much.
You should NEVER, I repeat NEVER be toooooo available for a guy. Even if you are head over fucking heels in love. He'd never respect you. You should always make him wonder about you.
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i agree. it's not like i believe in dating rules but this is common sense. most people place a higher value on what's hard to obtain. kinda superficial, but true. look at all those colossal waiting lists for new products out. people generally like what's exclusive.
and not too far the other way, either. you don't have to sit there screening calls and having a 2hr-textback-rule. when you're honest about your intentions, everything gets clearer. if you entertain or secretly like 'the chase', then by all means carry on. just don't complain when they're not dancing to your tune