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    Joined dxpnet on September 18, 2011.
    Posted by VulcanLass
    It is according to the situation ,the length of the relationship and what happened.I may plot long term to hurt you,blast you now or you are dead to me.
    If I thought/know that you didn't do it on purpose,I can work with you.
    If you do something a third time I know you being an a--hat.
    If you endanger people that are in my care,it's on.
    However this sounds completely different than that.If you are a nautrally emotional person,and if we are evolved ,we will except you as you are.
    However,if everytime we hear from you,
    it's SEEMS to be a life or death mess that you created,(and you haven't followed our advice from before)
    if you test and test us to see if we will rescue you,
    if you use your emotions like people use money,
    if you suspect instead us of something and act against us instead of ask,
    if it is something we think that you are perfectly capable of doing or dealing with,
    if it "always" them and never you,
    and if you keep changing your mind and don't keep us up to date ,
    then it is on you to clean up/take care of/pay up/wipe up behind yourself.
    Once people find out just how giving of time/patience/caring/expertise/comfort a Virgo can be,it's take take take.
    And this may not be you either,but I suggest you ,take a couple of deep breaths before you rush to throw a situation onto your Virguy.If you know you ALWAYS panic/rush to judgement,take that extra step/beat before you contact your man.We have a drama tank,once it's full,we're done. Learn to RELAX and BE YOURSELF.



    Thanks a lot VulcanLass for sharing your opinion smile
    Ya ... am actually following the tips & opinions am getting here, & I've seen some positive results as well.
    I'm learning to keep patience, cool & calm. I do have a lot of expectations from him, but am just keeping them buried in my heart.
    I guess he is liking my light n friendly approach ... after he had seen my emotional side ... he is slowly reciprocating now by replying back to my text, FB pm , sharing a joke etc ....
    But still most of the time he is in his typical 'cold' distant mode, don't know why... I really wish those happy days were back again Sad