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    words fail me
    from EspaƱa
    Joined dxpnet on February 04, 2012.
    oh my intruiged, what you wrote struck such a chord with me.
    1) before i got married and had kids, i was a serial cheat which was something my ex husband still has no knowledge of. the relationship was physically and emotionally abusive and he was an alcoholic coke addict with manic depression. i had 'reasons' to find validation elsewhere in casual flings which i would always enter into being completely honest about the fact that i would never leave him. i worshipped him (i was young)...but living with him was constant heartbreak. we weren't married but he broke the terms of a relationship by behaving the way he did. but i should've walked. the cheating kept me there cos it satisfied what i needed that i wasn't getting at home.
    2) when i got married and had kids, i didn't cheat any more. that's a side note. when i decided i wanted out of the marriage after karma bit me in the ass and HE cheated, i told him i wouldn't have sex with him any more cos it was the only way i knew he would ultimately leave. aries/scorpio is all about sex and nothing much else and i knew that without it, we had an empty shell of a relationship. he left after 18 months of colossal frustration and kicking and screaming all the way but you CANNOT have a romantic relationship with someone and NOT have intimacy. there's no point in the union otherwise.