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    Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
    I think I've learnt if you love someone let them go, if they come back they are yours if not they never were...
    Life is too short to miss out on opportunities, what we have is mostly great and I have confidence that after he gets through this he will see clearly once again. Like Nefer's man but I know he has to deal with it. Yes it hurts to feel 2nd best even for a moment but worth it in the long run. He will be stronger and able to cope more when he has to face other things like the birth and the kids talking about their new sibling. All of that will happen by Christmas. Unfortunately these are the things you have to deal with when you are in your 2nd stage in life and get with someone that has had a family. We have managed to merged our 5 children together without any problems. And I do believe that his kids are happier when they are with us.
    Give your man some space and time to miss you and appreciate what you were to him. Let him come back to you, he really does need to sort through things in his head and probably better for both of you if you aren't around. Just be a little patient and the rewards can be great!