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    male from King Of December
    Joined dxpnet on May 25, 2012.
    Hey everybody! I'm new and I'm a Sag male. I just happen to see this topic on the main page. From what I've read, the comments/advice given are right on point. I'm basically going through the same thing as callmegenesis with a few exceptions. I dated a Libra about four months ago who had just filed for divorce. We had been friends for years and there was definitely a romantic interest. I kept my distance because she was married, but became very close before she filed because I was the only one she trusted. The relationship between us was what God intended for love to be between a man and a woman. I treasured her, adored her, gave her my all and she did the same for me. But sadly, it ended. She said she needed space, which I understood, but yet didn't stick to it. She still had feelings for her husband although he is an abusive Scorpio. Things got a little nasty between us because I was frustrated with how she was treating me. She basically did the same thing your Leo is doing. Part of it is selfishness, but it is mainly because he(your Leo) and she are experiencing additional stress of a divorce on top of everyday responsibilities. Me and my ex barely speak and I hardly text. I've basically done what you've done...back off almost to the point of non communication.
    I say this to encourage you to work on you. I, like you, invested my all in my Libra. But I had to realize that she couldn't reciprocate at that time and she may never will. When we parted ways, she said she was indebted to me. I've gotten a lot of info on this site. About Libras and even myself. Things like this have nothing to do with signs, it's just what people are willing to do versus what they're going through. He may decide to just keep you as a friend. I know it hurts to hear that but it's a possibility. But I think he has plans for something more because he's introduced you to his child and mother. Something big for a Leo and men in general. So, just continue to be a friend...a distant one. It's not about slowing communication, but what happens when he calls/texts. Answer him on your own time. Make him work for you a little. I know how you feel. You simply want reciprocation and consideration. That's only fair. I know. Still be a friend and be there for him, but find a way to show him that he has to value you as well. When you turn the tables a little, he will either step up or he won't. That's the risk of love. Show your strength. I wish you well and I hope you two hook up.