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  • Posted by Chance11
    in response to the original post, i think there is something in the aries personality that attracts users. my boss is an aries and he has a short fuse but will constantly let people who shouldn't have a second chance come back into his life and loans people money that will never pay him back. with the quick temper that's gone fast and non grudge bearing ways, it's almost like he forgets previous transgressions 5 minutes later. one former employee that masqueraded as his friend owes him $ 6000 and another owes him $ 5000. over-loyalty can have some bad consequences.
    also, many aries i know can't seem to differentiate between people...to the ones i know, people are people and they are friendly and outgoing to everyone. while it's great to give everyone a chance, it seems kinda of naive in reality.


    He's stupid. I won't loan anyone money. I don't care who it is. When you start involving money in matters, it makes EVERYTHING a mess.
    I generally approach everyone the same until they prove otherwise. As soon as I start seeing the usual, bs, I start to back off.
    I used to do the forgive and forget, but I've been catching myself more lately. Mostly because I've noticed a certain trend in behavior and I just ignore the forgive part and drop them.
    And in regard to dropping vs befriending, it's not one extreme or the other, it's either they're your friend or they're not. If they're going to end up using and abusing you, bye. No need for people like that in my life.