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    Cancer Moon in 12th house trines Neptune
    65 years old female
    Joined dxpnet on April 13, 2005.
    Copperhead,
    My experience with a Virgo (24 years) is similiar to all mentioned here, for in this time frame, I've seen every side of him. I think the biggest problem is in just understanding their nature. Everything to them has to have order, there can be no chaos and that includes thier feelings. That is why he is already planning the next encounter. Their thoughts cannot be scattered, or they think they will explode. Unfortunately, this means their feelings, as well. It's not that they don't feel, on the contrary, they are very deep people, alot of insight and very intuitive - but, expressing emotions and feelings verbally when it comes to anything that might effect their heart - is forbidden. They will talk about anything, all day long, if you get them going. But, feelings for you, he probably won't talk about because it makes him feel vulnerable. We all need a place to hide and this is Virgo's place. If he spills the beans, then your response might not be organized, might not be controlled, might not be logical - his head will explode at that point. Listen to some of the Virgo's talk in these threads and you will see that everything has a solution, nothing can left to chance. Self preservation is in warding off anything unpredictable.
    My Virgo knows me well enough that he has learned to talk about his emotions because I won't have it any other way (I'm a Pisces) because living out my feelings is the only way I know how to exist. But, it took years and years and years and years and years and years - and then more years, to get him to fully trust that I can handle his openess without turning his world upside down.
    If you want to be with this man, which is a great match for a Taurus, then you have to back off a little and not press him about how he feels for you. If you push him, he will walk away. And not because he doesn't want to be with you, but because if you push him into exposing his inner feelings, then to him, you are putting him in danger of facing his worse fear - to face the fact that he feels. That is their worst fear. They will face anything else with gonnads the size of Texas - but, not the fact that they feel. Order, structure and practicality is the only thing they think is essential to function in this world.
    Knowing that your Virgo wants to be with you will come in other ways, like remembering important dates and events, always considering what you want, or don't want. They are servants to your needs and desires and by showing you that he cares enough to acknowledge these things is his way of saying "I love you with all my heart, and will stick by you through thick and thin."