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    "Totally freakin' awesome, LOVE being me! Posted by caligula
    52 years old female from Michigan
    Joined dxpnet on July 08, 2009.
    I must have missed the "curtness".. probably because I didn't expect it, so I didn't read it with that inflection. lol
    Hmmm... so flirting got you into hot water, then? Flirtsies and funsies gone too far (FOR HER)?
    Honey, I feel for you, I really do.. I told you what can happen, bared my private life to strangers' eyes so you could see for yourself what "flirting" did to a Libra man's loving relationship. Granted, I was talking to you about the Aries co-worker.. but what I said still stands. Have you gone back to read the earliest posts, and the interaction between you and I? You should; I did.
    Maybe it would help to know that Libra and I are doing wonderfully together now.. rebuilt, but in a different way.. stronger foundation. But it took a long time to get there, for REAL forgiveness to allow the gentleness back into my stoned-nearly-to-death heart. He almost lost me forever, but managed to hang in there JUST long enough -- because he understood that HE did this to ME.. and that I EARNED the time needed to heal my wounds, EARNED the right to occasionally bring it up and "hammer" at him with his past indiscretions, and much as he hated it, as unfair as it felt for me to "keep harping" on his wrongdoings.. he took it, hating being reminded of being "the bad guy" (esp when HE didn't think he did anything THAT wrong.. "it was just flirting! never cheating!").. but eventually, I slowly healed and could look at him with admiration and respect and love again... and that's when our relationship really deepened again.